Friday, August 13, 2010

Addy..I dunno whether you will read this but..

我希望你为自己而活而不是为别人而活。

Maybe I made a mistake in making u quit smoking for me..
No it shouldnt be the case..
You should quit for your own sake..because it harms your body..
And if you quit for your own sake..you will not think about it anymore because the decision is made by you not me..

Thursday, August 12, 2010

我只希望爱情不要那么样复杂。。

Because I am really not used to having the shield on my heart down..
When it is down, I may feel insecure, invulnerable..especially when everything you say or do will affect me so easily...
Maybe just like Erza in fairytail..without the armor..I get scared..
But if I entrust my heart in the right person..
I know that I will be alright..

And so..Lets hope it will be alright..

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

One minute of silence for the lose of you.....may we meet again in the next life =)

Monday, August 9, 2010

Lets just hope that things will return to normal..
Really hope so..
Rawr..

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Looks like I really have to start using my mind over my heart..
I need to learn how to control my emotions during my period..
Because if every time a problem pops up when I am having my period..
And I think with my heart..I think I am so going to cause a lot of troubles for myself and others close to me..

Among the chaos, I will find order..I must..

last night I was being unreasonable and selfish..to Addy..
I wasnt thinking..only thinking of myself..
Its not as easy as it looks to quit smoking..
And I shouldnt run away..

Ha..Addy looks like you are not the only weak minded person here..
Me too..
If I stayed strong I would have thrown aside my sorrows and support u..
instead of being a big whinny baby..
Making you feel worse will not solve problems..
And I shouldnt just make lousy decisions that benefit me but not u..

Listen..
I suck lolx..
You may think that its you who always seem to hurt me..
Its not true..
Maybe I am just too weak to take it..
And I should stop being so weak..
Telling you not to contact me is stupid too..
Quitting is a difficult period and I am running away..
Isnt it equalivant to betrayal??

I suck again..

Looks like I have a lot of patching to do huh?
AND
STOP RUNNING AWAY..
Okay whinny me should be gone..
And I have to be strong..

Addy jiayou!!
Ever since he told me that..
I feel like my world collapsed..
Now..I am having mixed feelings..

Confusion
Worry
Fear
Disappointment
Sorrow

Today I saw him..its like suddenly we are distanced from each other..
he is like a little boy that did something wrong..
and I just dont know how to face him..
Because I feel awful..and with all the feelings above in me..
And try having pms on top of that..

Horrible..

Its so difficult to use my head instead of my heart..
its..just plain tough..
I dont want to make him feel worse than he already is..especially when he told me the truth..
But my heart hurts..so much..even now..it still hurts..
Suddenly even betrayal isnt as bad as this..
I wan to be close to him but I feel like facing a stranger instead..
its like I dont know this person in front of me..
Or more of i wish i dont know this person in front of me..
Yet love stops me from running away..but my heart hurts..
I wan to act like nothing has changed..
but its impossible..

Confusion

How did this happen? Of all ways to destress and all..why this? This thing that left a huge scar on my heart since I was young.. And why didnt he think of me...of the consequences..

Worry

What if he do this again? What if he never quit? How am I going to face him? Will this affect our relationship negatively?

I dunno..and dont wish to know the answers especially if its negative...

Fear

I am scared...of him..yes..fear.. because of the emotional scars left on me..Just now when he put
down his call (saying that he missed me).. I was still scared.. that its so close to me.. that it is with the person I love so much.. I wan to run away..but I cant..

Disappointment

Why didnt he tell me earlier? Maybe if I wasnt having period I wont take it so badly.. and the fact that he already went through 2 boxes makes me so upset.. Why?

Sorrow

The deepest and strongest feeling of all.. I just feel sad.. Sad that this is happening to me..Sad that I am so useless and hapless.. Sad that its not over yet..

Love and Hate..
I love him but I hate what he is doing..
Its a horrible feeling..
Idiot..you already have a weak stomach..now you want to ruin your lungs is it?
You want to leave the world earlier and leave me by myself right?
And who gives a damn about yan ting.. am I not your gf? Do you even want me at all?

I am so willing to pay him the price of it and take it and throw it right away..
Cus something tells me that by the time he finishes it I may just go crazy with all these feelings in me...
I will really go crazy..
I just need a hug..and a kiss (a fresh one) when it is finally over.. to make me feel safe and secure again..

3rd day of tears..

Friday, August 6, 2010

Great..Wonderful..
Someone please tell me why every time something has to happen to someone close to me...
WHY?
Feel like screaming into the pillow....will do that later..
Sigh..Does it run in the female's family blood or something that we become extraordinary ppl because we go through a lot and still dont find happiness?

Maybe? I dunno...I really dunno what to do..
Something tells me to run away but the other side holds me back..
I cannot run away all the time when something wrong happens..
It will not be solved...
If praying will work..I will do it..I will do anything that works just please save me from this nightmare...

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

I guess..
When you are feeling hopeless and trapped in a difficult position,
those who are there for you no matter what are those who you should treasure for life..

Thanks..

I was thinking..
Love is like an investment..
You wont know whether the person you invest your feelings in will return your investments..
But one thing for sure, if you invest in the right person..
You will gain so much more..(Priceless things like experience, happiness, courage, confidence, etc..)

Maybe if everyone invests in everyone as much as possible without worrying about whether they get the gains back, the world will be a better place..
Because, as long as you invest, you will not lose anything if the other side invest as much or more back..then love will grow..

If the person didnt return your feelings as much as you put in,
You gained courage and experience for making the shot, and those are priceless.. as compared to the one who did not try at all..

I believe in things that are impossible..
Why not?
If its impossible then there should be an alternate route.. that may be close to the solution..
Its still better than standing there without trying and thinking it wont work and be afraid to give things a try..

Oh well I am just being crappy..and I am glad I didnt hold back in putting heart into people..Especially those who are by my side when I am down..
Thank you